Love…something you give ..
If you’ve read my article “I love you but I’m not in love with you”
you learned that being “in love” is a state of feeling and not a choice.
Choosing to love your mate or future mate is a decision
that you make that will stand no matter what happens in the relationship.
Have you ever thought
But have you ever thought about what a relationship would be like
if you are the only one that’s giving love?
You do everything that you know to show love and affection to your mate
but you feel like you are on a desert island and there is no love in sight coming back to you.
The fact is…love is something you give to others but it seems to be painful and difficult to ask for love only to be rejected.
So what do you do if the love you seek isn’t forthcoming and that feeling of rejection washes over you?
At Fort Worth Christian Counseling the first thing that we suggest is to seek God for the love that you need.
Learning who you are in Christ is the first step to easing the pain.
The truth is, God will never reject you no matter what you may have done. So seeking hos love will help if you are in a “love slump”
I realize that we live here on Earth and we need affection of a physical nature so let’s talk about that for a minute.
As loud as your flesh may scream for that physical touch…it won’t get you to where you want to go so-to-speak.
Leaning on God’s love and seeking to understand it will allow you to give genuine love to a mate…and this is a HEALING love…a love that can actually reach into a person and begin a process of healing from past hurts that can reach into ones childhood.
This isn’t an ordinary love…this is a love that can set an individual free from past hurts and this can and WILL affect your marriage in a positive way.
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