Understanding Why
Understanding Why
Do you want to get to “why” in your relationship or about yourself? Then keep reading! Understanding “why” something has happened in your life or relationship, will calm one’s thoughts at the very least. However, understanding why something has happened the way it happened “teaches” one how to react[1] , respond and to approach a situation in the future.
Understanding Why
Most likely you are trying to understand a relationship…why it failed or why things are going the way that they are. To begin to understand this, we have to understand PEOPLE!
I’m sure that we are all aware that everyone has different opinions about things…but it goes much deeper that that.
The question “why” has an answer..and that answer is Temperament[2]. There are 5 Temperaments[3] and thousands of various “blends” of Temperaments.
So if you are having difficulty talking to your mate or a so-worker, the difficulty lies in not understand their “unique language”.
Here’s an example…it will be difficult if not impossible to try to tell a Melancholy[4] what to do. They have difficulty allowing other people to “speak into” their lives by telling them what to do.
One who understands the Temperament of their mate or family member will be closer to the question “why” than they have ever been before.
It’s when these “misunderstandings” have been left unanswered for months or even years that things may seem “lost” and not worth going any further in a marriage/relationship. Because emotional pain can create an actual “thought pattern” that will dictate how a person thinks in future situations like this, learning how to re-train your brain to think differently can be the difference between failure and success.
So while the difficulties in marriage and human relationships may not be that easy to understand when one is in the painful misunderstanding phase…having your temperament profile done will be the perfect road to “understanding why”
