How to love

Dr. W.H. Penewit D.Min

How to love

God created us a spirit to show us how to love

How to love…Man is a spirit created in God’s own image…in other words you are just like him!

God loves us and wants to teach us how to love as he does

Knowing Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior is paramount in your life!

We all realize there is more to it than just that. I mean…there are things that we want and needs that we have…

We cant just float around all day and be happy.

What are these “other needs“?

God gave us a soul to teach us how to love

It’s the kind of love that goes deep into your soul…that connects you with God…your family and especially the one you love.

We can describe this as deeper than just “surface love” it’s the kind of love that “feeds our soul”

This is where “soul mate” comes from. Someone who you are so connected to that you feel lost when they are away for too long.

Understand that love starts in your spirit and then drops into your soul.

This is where “genuine love” lives…not just in the spirit but in the soul as well.

Your mate will do doubt see this love as the most important kind of love that you can give.

There is one more place that love must visit in man…and that is THE BODY!

Man lives in a body that is taught how to love

This is where it all gets interesting!

As we learn that love comes from God and that our soul takes that love and places

intimate value to it…then our body speaks up!

Our body needs it’s share of this love and all too often this is where these needs don’t get met.

Our bodies need love too! It’s the proof that the genuine love from the soul is real.

If we don’t get the “real love” from our mate, then “counterfeit love” will seek us out.

This love NEVER comes from the soul…it comes from the flesh as lust.

Lust is from the devil and he uses this lust to destroy marriages.

If you’ll follow this plan you will find genuine love that is safe and from God!

Fort Worth Christian Counseling

700 Northeast Loop 820 200 B, Hurst

Michael Kim★★★★★9 months ago

The Penewit's were there for me when I was at the lowest point in my life and had no hope. I was truly defeated, oppressed, … More and was reaching out for a life raft to save me. Fast forward six months later, and my life has never been the same. Through them, I have found restoration and healing for my soul. I am beyond grateful for their spiritual wisdom and practical guidance. They truly walk with Jesus and have helped me receive an abundance of life!

Daniel Woolley★★★★★7 months ago

My wife and I had grown apart after 30 years of marriage and she told me one day that if I want this marriage to work we need … More counseling. Needless to say I was on the phone within minutes. 2 counselors called and both I had to leave a message. 3rd was Dr Penewit. His wife answered and after I explained my situation she asked if she could pray for me and my marriage! God doesn't make mistakes! I have to say after my wife and I took the personality test and we realized what we were doing wrong in our marriage we grow closer to each other and to Gid daily. Dr Penewit has guided us through waters we didn't want to travel and he showed us God's purpose not only in our marriage but also individually. 3 months in and my marriage is the best it's ever been!! If you're looking for Christian counseling and you're at your wits end in an unhappy marriage I can't recommend Dr Penewit enough! My only regret is that we didn't meet him 30 years ago!! Don't give up. God works through the Doc and if you give it a try with open hearts and minds, you will soon realize why you fell in love with your spouse in the first place. Make the call!!

Mike Vasquez★★★★★a year ago

Dr.Penewit brought a different approach to me by utilizing the Bible that helped me see things differently in my marriage. I … More was almost at the end of my rope and Dr. Penewit’s was very encouraging with his words and Bible references that ultimately saved me from giving up. . Thank You Dr. Penewit!

Rosemary Hartley★★★★★11 months ago

Doc and Linda, has helped our relationship tremendously he has taught us by being close as a couple. We are stronger and God’s … More image. Thank you Doc & Linda, you mean the world to us God bless you both.

Heididelis Alexander★★★★★2 years ago

My husband and I were blessed to find Mrs. Penewit. God used her in many ways to help us grow and understand ourselves and each … More other as God intended. I am grateful for her kindness, compassion, non-judgmental approach. We had lost a few counselors along the way and Mrs. Penewit made the difficult process of opening up seamless. We would recommend them to anyone seeking individual/family guidance and healing. May God continue to bless you!

Jamie Delannoy★★★★★2 years ago

We love Doc and Linda! They are both such incredible people, and I highly recommend them for marital counseling. My husband and … More I see Dr. Penewit, and he has helped us gain a whole new biblically-based understanding of marriage, how to truly be one flesh, and how to resolve conflicts. He is so welcoming and approachable, which we really appreciate, as well. I have also seen Linda a couple of times, and she is also amazing and just the sweetest! Both of them allow the Holy Spirit to guide them, which allows me to be 100% confident in their guidance! They also use the Arno profile system to classify each person's temperament in several categories, and it helped us to gain an understanding of each other's needs, strengths, and weaknesses. I won't pretend that our Arno temperament profiles were 100% accurate in every area, but overall they were very telling and very helpful! Dr. Penewit uses that information, along with God's word, to counsel us in every aspect of our marriage, and he pulled us through some very tough times! We use the tools and guidance he has given us on a day to day basis, and he has been an instrumental role in my pathway to spiritual freedom! -Jamie Delannoy, PharmD

David Blodgett★★★★★3 years ago

We loved working with Dr Penewit. He uses Biblical foundations through all of his sessions and always has God as the center. … More All things pointed us closer to God and resulted in us drawing closer to each other. His approach and demeanor is very empathetic with compassion. Thanks for everything Doc!

Chelsey Hendrix★★★★★4 years ago

We have been going here for a few months now and already there has been so much that we have learned about each other in these … More short months that we didn't realize for the past 15 years! Dr. Penewit has been such a blessing! They have a temperament profile that is amazing and he really helps break it down and helps you see and understand yourself and your spouse in a whole new way! It's almost like dating your spouse again! We are so thankful for them! God Loving and God Lead People! They are amazing! Highly recommend!!

Monica Chatman★★★★★a year ago

This couple is a God send for marriage counseling. I love their approach on marriage and really diving into the roots of healing. … More

Arthur Lyons★★★★★3 years ago

Absolutely awesome!! I have no other words to explain how awesome they are.

Christina Perez★★★★★3 years ago

I have been going here for almost 2 years & it still amazes me how much support & guidance they give. Not only did I receive … More guidance, help, & support, but I was helped in growing my relationship with God! I recommend this place to anyone who is looking to be heard, learn to realize things they never even knew were there, & to grow spiritually! God certainly blessed me & knew what I needed when I was guided to Fort Worth Christian Counseling!

Mateo JR★★★★★3 years ago

I'm extremely grateful for Dr. Penewit and Rev. Linda for all they do. They have had such a major impact on me and my family's … More life as believers and our lives have been radically changed for the better. Their compassion for their clients was much needed when we were experiencing struggles in our spiritual life and they have equipped us with the tools, wisdom and encouragement to conquer whatever struggles we may find ourselves up against. I cannot recommend their services enough to anyone in need of effective, Bible based counseling.

Indistinct Chatter★★★★★3 years ago

Jesus runs the show here. 5 stars Jesus 🙂

Victor Vazquez★★★★★3 years ago

Me and my daughter have been coming to Fort Worth Christian counseling for over a year and we love it. With each session, God … More has healed deep struggles we've been carrying for a while. I Highly recommend Fort Worth Christian Counseling!

Dylan Nuncio★★★★★3 years ago

Linda and Doc have been amazing during my time with them. They both put God first during their sessions. They’re good with kids … More and help with reconciling families.

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Michael Kim★★★★★9 months ago
The Penewit's were there for me when I was at the lowest point in my life and had no hope. I was truly defeated, oppressed, … More and was reaching out for a life raft to save me. Fast forward six months later, and my life has never been the same. Through them, I have found restoration and healing for my soul. I am beyond grateful for their spiritual wisdom and practical guidance. They truly walk with Jesus and have helped me receive an abundance of life!
Daniel Woolley★★★★★7 months ago
My wife and I had grown apart after 30 years of marriage and she told me one day that if I want this marriage to work we need … More counseling. Needless to say I was on the phone within minutes. 2 counselors called and both I had to leave a message. 3rd was Dr Penewit. His wife answered and after I explained my situation she asked if she could pray for me and my marriage! God doesn't make mistakes! I have to say after my wife and I took the personality test and we realized what we were doing wrong in our marriage we grow closer to each other and to Gid daily. Dr Penewit has guided us through waters we didn't want to travel and he showed us God's purpose not only in our marriage but also individually. 3 months in and my marriage is the best it's ever been!! If you're looking for Christian counseling and you're at your wits end in an unhappy marriage I can't recommend Dr Penewit enough! My only regret is that we didn't meet him 30 years ago!! Don't give up. God works through the Doc and if you give it a try with open hearts and minds, you will soon realize why you fell in love with your spouse in the first place. Make the call!!
Mike Vasquez★★★★★a year ago
Dr.Penewit brought a different approach to me by utilizing the Bible that helped me see things differently in my marriage. I … More was almost at the end of my rope and Dr. Penewit’s was very encouraging with his words and Bible references that ultimately saved me from giving up. . Thank You Dr. Penewit!
Rosemary Hartley★★★★★11 months ago
Doc and Linda, has helped our relationship tremendously he has taught us by being close as a couple. We are stronger and God’s … More image. Thank you Doc & Linda, you mean the world to us God bless you both.
Heididelis Alexander★★★★★2 years ago
My husband and I were blessed to find Mrs. Penewit. God used her in many ways to help us grow and understand ourselves and each … More other as God intended. I am grateful for her kindness, compassion, non-judgmental approach. We had lost a few counselors along the way and Mrs. Penewit made the difficult process of opening up seamless. We would recommend them to anyone seeking individual/family guidance and healing. May God continue to bless you!
Jamie Delannoy★★★★★2 years ago
We love Doc and Linda! They are both such incredible people, and I highly recommend them for marital counseling. My husband and … More I see Dr. Penewit, and he has helped us gain a whole new biblically-based understanding of marriage, how to truly be one flesh, and how to resolve conflicts. He is so welcoming and approachable, which we really appreciate, as well. I have also seen Linda a couple of times, and she is also amazing and just the sweetest! Both of them allow the Holy Spirit to guide them, which allows me to be 100% confident in their guidance! They also use the Arno profile system to classify each person's temperament in several categories, and it helped us to gain an understanding of each other's needs, strengths, and weaknesses. I won't pretend that our Arno temperament profiles were 100% accurate in every area, but overall they were very telling and very helpful! Dr. Penewit uses that information, along with God's word, to counsel us in every aspect of our marriage, and he pulled us through some very tough times! We use the tools and guidance he has given us on a day to day basis, and he has been an instrumental role in my pathway to spiritual freedom! -Jamie Delannoy, PharmD
David Blodgett★★★★★3 years ago
We loved working with Dr Penewit. He uses Biblical foundations through all of his sessions and always has God as the center. … More All things pointed us closer to God and resulted in us drawing closer to each other. His approach and demeanor is very empathetic with compassion. Thanks for everything Doc!
Chelsey Hendrix★★★★★4 years ago
We have been going here for a few months now and already there has been so much that we have learned about each other in these … More short months that we didn't realize for the past 15 years! Dr. Penewit has been such a blessing! They have a temperament profile that is amazing and he really helps break it down and helps you see and understand yourself and your spouse in a whole new way! It's almost like dating your spouse again! We are so thankful for them! God Loving and God Lead People! They are amazing! Highly recommend!!
Monica Chatman★★★★★a year ago
This couple is a God send for marriage counseling. I love their approach on marriage and really diving into the roots of healing. … More
Arthur Lyons★★★★★3 years ago
Absolutely awesome!! I have no other words to explain how awesome they are.
Christina Perez★★★★★3 years ago
I have been going here for almost 2 years & it still amazes me how much support & guidance they give. Not only did I receive … More guidance, help, & support, but I was helped in growing my relationship with God! I recommend this place to anyone who is looking to be heard, learn to realize things they never even knew were there, & to grow spiritually! God certainly blessed me & knew what I needed when I was guided to Fort Worth Christian Counseling!
Mateo JR★★★★★3 years ago
I'm extremely grateful for Dr. Penewit and Rev. Linda for all they do. They have had such a major impact on me and my family's … More life as believers and our lives have been radically changed for the better. Their compassion for their clients was much needed when we were experiencing struggles in our spiritual life and they have equipped us with the tools, wisdom and encouragement to conquer whatever struggles we may find ourselves up against. I cannot recommend their services enough to anyone in need of effective, Bible based counseling.
Indistinct Chatter★★★★★3 years ago
Jesus runs the show here. 5 stars Jesus 🙂
Victor Vazquez★★★★★3 years ago
Me and my daughter have been coming to Fort Worth Christian counseling for over a year and we love it. With each session, God … More has healed deep struggles we've been carrying for a while. I Highly recommend Fort Worth Christian Counseling!
Dylan Nuncio★★★★★3 years ago
Linda and Doc have been amazing during my time with them. They both put God first during their sessions. They’re good with kids … More and help with reconciling families.