Self confidence in the dumpster? If you are like me you feel like your self confidence level goes up and down from time to time.
At times it stays there for a few days or even longer …and when it does it saps you of your ability
Things that you used to do effortlessly now seem impossible to accomplish, and relationships are difficult as well.
Self confidence comes from many sources so we need to define what we are talking about.
- Confidence in yourself
- Confidence in what you possess
- confidence in your belief system
Confidence in yourself
This type of confidence depends on what happens to you so it all depends on how you react to life.
If you feel like you have no control over things that are happening to you then the confidence is gone.
Self confidence and The Melancholy
Take “social confidence” for example …Melancholies are not comfortable in a room full of strangers
because being around people cause them stress.
They generally feel inferior to others which will drain them of their self-confidence in an instant.
This causes anxiety and stress which will cause them to feel judged.
A Melancholy has a need for acceptance that they need for their own self-esteem.
Self confidence and God
Knowing The 5 Temperaments, I know what makes them weak and what makes them work.
The need for approval from others is in the “top spot” so finding a relationship with God is vital.
Melancholies have “goals” that they are attempting to achieve, so realizing that God wants to help
them with their goals is instrumental.
Philippians 1:6New American Standard Bible (NASB)
6 For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in youwill perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.
Showing The Melancholy that God is with them and will help them complete their goals will
ease their fear of failure.
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